100 words on: Social implies personal…some suggestions for engagement
“I’d like to add you to my professional network.”
– Rachel L.
“Do I know you? Who are you?”
– Kirk
Are we too lazy – or speed obsessed to optimize social media by personalizing?
Let’s not forget the vintage advertising mantra: show me you know me.
If we haven’t spoken in years, met in passing, or never, a generic note won’t motivate me to connect. Sell me on the value of being linked: you’re fun, we have history, our networks mesh…
Skip ‘faux personalization.’ Personalized subject lines do work – we’ve tested and re-tested for clients*. But, few of us write ‘Kirk, it’s so exciting…’ ‘Kirk, you’d be surprised…’ in personal communication. You don’t know me. You’re marketing me.
Un-friending, un-linking or unsubscribing is like breaking up. It’s personal – and sends a clear message: don’t contact, recommend or refer you to my network. Remember, few of us can’t be replaced by someone who’s more personal…
* We see about a 15% increase in open rates when leading with your first name – it still gets your attention.


